299:Eugenics & EvoPsych, Child threatens suicide, Bad child blaming good parents

In todays’ show, the Dr’s discuss:

1. I am curious about an unpopular subject: systematic eugenics.  Has “random” selection in the mating market already produced the best possible human genes combinations? Could we generate humans with drastically higher IQ, strength, size, speed, athleticism, beauty, etc? What do you think is the hypothetical limit of human genetic potential for outlier individuals and for the average of a population?  This kind of discussion is often obscured by the obvious practical and ethical problems, rather than what it could theoretically achieve.

2. My husband’s daughter is extremely disagreeable, low conscientiousness, low intelligence, highly introverted, open to drugs and alcohol and unstable. She is in constant crisis and is constantly threatening suicide. My husband and I have really tried to be there for her and never miss a call, but her constant cries for attention are draining and have taken years off our lives. I don’t want to discount anything that she is feeling but my and my husband’s mental health are really suffering and we don’t know what to do. 

3. How do you respond to a child who has no recognition of their limitations? i.e. on the verge of being fired because they constantly call in “sick,” show up late, don’t do their job. Or the child who barely passed chemistry but says they are going to med school? Even if we say “That’s great, but I understand med school is a lot of work” she gets mad and tells us and all her friends that we told her that she was a loser and a failure and because of us, she isn’t going to med school anymore and instead she’s stuck in a minimum wage job. Then she gets depressed at what might have been if we hadn’t held her back. But if we say nothing, then she tries and fails (or fails to try) and becomes depressed and that somehow becomes our fault too.

298: Depression in the modern world vs. Stone Age

In today’s episode, Dr. Lisle and Dr. Howk discuss the following question:

1. Given that depression is inherently demotivating (because it is failure feedback that tells you to stop what you’re doing), how might one ‘bootstrap’ oneself into more positive, motivated mood states? I wonder what people in the Stone Age village would have done to bounce back from failure feedback; it makes most of us want to curl into a ball and die. How does depression actually end up benefiting and motivating us?

295: Nothing satisfies, Euthanasia, Tragedies, Adrenaline junkies, Homophobia

In today’s show (episode 295), Dr. Lisle discusses the following questions:

1. I am a 35 year old female and I don’t know what to do with my life. I have a bachelors degree in biochemistry and doctorate degree in pharmacy. I worked as a clinical pharmacist for a year but I got bored and I quit. Then I worked as a massage therapist, a real estate agent, and a dental hygienist. I got bored of these as well. They just didn’t satisfy me, even though I don’t even know what I’m looking for or what I want. My relationships are the same as my careers – casual at best with many different men. I really want to settle down in a career and relationship but I just seem unable to. What should I do?

2. The euthanasia law changes in Canada to include mental illness as a valid reason seem deeply disturbing to me based on an evolutionary psychology perspective for people in the majority of situations. This would have been considered a “slippery slope” argument on euthanasia in the past, I cannot see how they are considered logical fallacies anymore at this point. What is your libertarian perspective on this issue given your wealth of knowledge within these areas?

3. My son recently became disabled. If “finding yourself in good circumstances” is what leads to feelings of happiness, how will I ever feel happiness again? How could I ever feel “happiness” for him if everything about his life is now difficult and painful. These are not good circumstances. My pain and sadness for him and his future is indescribable.

4. Can you discuss adrenaline rush and the people who seek it? especially with respect to free climbers.. i mean i get the status acquisition part but god are they crazy ? 

5. I am curious about how homophobic sentiment arose in humans. Has it always been there?