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Evolutionary psychologist, Doug Lisle, PhD discusses listener questions with host, Nathan Gershfeld.  In today’s show, Dr. Lisle discusses the US Presidential Election and what to consider if you are distraught or if you are celebrating the results of President Trump being elected. Also, Dr. Lisle discusses the concept of morality – what is it? Is it innate? Is it taught?

1. Dr. Lisle weighs in on what to consider about the US Presidential election

2. If morality requires us to act against our psychology, which is impossible, does morality exist?

Teasers [0:00]

Intro  [1:38]

Opening discussion [3:08]

Dr. Lisle on whether your candidate won or lost: [4:15]

You have specific relationships with individuals not government [7:52]

An example of an oil wild-catter [13:07]

The Group Trap [21:10]

Opportunity and Adversity [33:41]

Beating your genes [36:19]

Some wins and some losses for your tribal psychology [43:04]

Question # 2: What is morality?  [48:13]

Individual differences that are species-specific [56:28]

In group/Out group behavior [1:02:00]

Morality of the species is magnificent [1:06]: 20

Life goes on, look for opportunity [1:07:38]

Outro: [1:08:35]

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Evolutionary psychologist, Doug Lisle, PhD discusses listener questions with host, Nathan Gershfeld.  In today’s show, Dr. Lisle’s discusses a term called The Ego Trap in the context of the following listener question:

1. Do you think Lebron James is ego-trapping his son Bronny? He has tweeted that Bronny is going to do extremely well he just needs a bit of time, but in reality the kid looks like he’s not even cut out for the D-League. I know there’s something to be said of Lebron’s status and influence in the league when it comes to decision-making, but I wonder what will come out of his son. Bronny has stated in the past that he wants to make his own name and not be compared to his dad. Do you think Lebron’s son will succeed in not feeling bad for living up to people’s high expections and just play the game because he loves it? Or will he react like a teenager with pushy parents wanting him to get straight A’s knowing that he can’t?

Teasers [0:00]

Intro  [0:36]

Question #1 [1:53]

Dr. Lisle talks Basketball and Lebron and Bronny James#1: [3:14]

Going over Ego Trap in context of Father/Son Dynamics: [15:32]

It’s Motivating to potentially beat expectations: [38:35]

Two Traps Dr. Lisle has named  [38:58]

Final thoughts/Wrapping up:  [46:17]

Outro: [50:28]

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Evolutionary psychologist, Doug Lisle, PhD discusses listener questions with host, Nathan Gershfeld. 

Question 1: How do I get back to being happy with so much violence and negativity swirling around in the news and in the world? No matter what has been going on in my life, I have always tended to be happy and optimistic, but recently it feels like everything seems pretty bleak in the world and it is bringing me down. I truly don’t have any reason to be unhappy- I am part of a magic 10% marriage, I have a good job and great friends and make good money, and truly, want for nothing, but I am fighting feeling sad and anxious about everything going on around me even though I don’t watch the news and am not on social media.

Question 2: Dear Dr. Lisle, I’m a 25 year old woman and I am unmotivated, have no career, no passions or purpose in life because my family is extremely rich. I am set to inherit a ton of money (tens of millions of dollars) from my parents, so basically I am set for life if I do absolutely nothing for the rest of my life. I didn’t go to college because I knew I was going to inherit all this money and I didn’t think it was worth it. Now, I literally don’t know what to do with my life. Other people need to work to live. I have more money than they will ever make in their lifetime and I didn’t even do anything to earn it. My parents tell me to do whatever I want because I’ll be rich anyway. I’m embarrassed to date because I have no interesting personality characteristics; I have no career, I’m unmotivated, no passions, no purpose in life. I’m just a spoiled rich girl who inherited daddy’s money, who’s going to love me for who I am? How am I going to spend the next 50 years of my life? I feel unmotivated to do anything because I’m already rich but then I feel guilty for having nothing to offer to the world. What should I do?

Intro [0:00]

Question #1: [0:55]

Dr. Lisle answers: [1:44]

A threshold has been reached [41:53]

Understand economics [42:10]

Question #2: [46:52]

Dr. Lisle answers: [47:55]

Outro [1:08:40]

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