Evolutionary psychologist, Doug Lisle, PhD and social scientist, Jen Howk, PhD discuss listener questions with host, Nathan Gershfeld:
1. Help! My son just turned 8. He has acquired part of his personality from my mother- he can be loud and will overreact or get really angry about things. This includes being told he needs to stop an activity because we are leaving the house, etc. I am trying to help him manage these outbursts because kids are starting to make fun of him at school for them. Do you have any specific strategies that would help or should I focus more on his diet and sleep? He is normally a sweet boy and these outbursts have improved with age but I feel he needs more support.
2. Is there anything that is the opposite of the ego trap when you have been repeatedly told negative things like that you are worthless and will never amount to anything? If the ego trap is demotivating, is hearing the opposite motivating? If so, can’t it also be extremely demotivating as well, especially if your mind is doing a CB analysis of the possibility of success and whether the energy output is worth it, but the people around you are saying that you won’t succeed?
3. I have an aunt who is so solipsistic, doesn’t enquire about anyone else and is disagreeable. Sitting across the table from her, it’s difficult to understand how someone can be so blind to the life of others and narcissistic. She’s was divorced by 2 prior husbands. Is disagreeable behavior like this related to the “theory of mind” module and if so can you describe the various demarks on the “theory of mind” bell curve?
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